Threesome helped us to save our marriage

There comes a time when every marriage hits a point where you almost consider it as over. The same thing happened recently with our marriage. It’s been five years since we tied the knot and more than 10 years of courtship. Ever since the first day we laid eyes on each other, we just knew that we were meant to be.

Well, just like any other normal couple, we have had our share of fights, misunderstandings and tears. But things went a little too the extreme after I lost our first child due to a miscarriage. The pain that we both went through was not expressible considering that we were waiting to be parents.

It was during this phase where the frustration levels hit the peak. It went so bad that I even moved out of the house. The reality was that our marriage was going through a very tough phase. Considering that we have been in love with each other for more than 15 years; we did not want our marriage to break.

Hubby pops the big question and it is not Will you marry me

One day my husband asked if I could meet him at our favorite coffee shop. He wanted to talk about giving our marriage a chance. While talking things out, he came up with an insane idea and that’s when he said – Honey, let’s do something different to spice our life up. I was trying to figure out what he meant by it, he broke the bubble and suggested that we should try out a threesome

My first reaction was that I really couldn’t do it. Not that I was not a modern girl but just the idea of sharing the man of my life with somebody else did not go down with me. After a long time of talking the if’s and buts’ I finally gave in to the idea of having a threesome.

Although I had my reservations, I was still willing to give it a try only to save my marriage. For some this statement may sound cliché; but for those who are in an open marriage, you would definitely connect to what I am saying.

The hunt for the new partner in our life

Having agreed to give the whole threesome concept a shot, the next thing was to hunt for someone who was ok with sleeping with a couple. We checked a London escorts website and checked out the sexy escorts available today posted the need for a person who was willing to have sex with a couple. Within a week we got a response. It was a young girl who was in her late 20’s and she also was looking out for the same thing.

We met her at a coffee shop for the first time to talk things out. We even told her that this was the first time we were planning to have a threesome. She was fine with the whole thing and decided she wanted to do it as a consenting adult. That is when we decided to meet up during the weekend at our place.

The night that changed our lives

Since we were newbie’s with the threesome concept, she was the expert and our guru in a way. She came with a bag full of different sex toys and BDSM stuff. Her take on it was that it would make the threesome experience more interesting.

Before we ventured into our new adventure, she demonstrated the use of every toy. My hubby and I felt like oldies considering that we had no experience. But this girl was a sweetheart who was very patient with us.

We left everything up to her; it was natural that my hubby and I were a little hesitant at first to become intimate with a new partner. Prior to her arrival, my husband and I had spoken things out. He had already told me that this was not going to change the way he felt and neither did he have any ideas of cheating on me.

Moving on to the night, the adventure started with both of us getting into foreplay, after a while, she also came into the picture. She worked on both of us together, one hand on me and the other on my hubby, by the way she was moving it was clear; she was an expert in threesome.

As the night went one, we took turns of getting tied on bed, while my hubby was getting intimate with me, she was there by our side giving my hubby an anal sex with a dildo. The initial hesitation was long gone by then. As we progressed into the wee hours of the morning, the threesome experience become more interesting and fun.

We tried different positions and ways to have sex as well as used the different toys that she got. By early morning we all so tired from the entire threesome adventure of the night. For the first time in 15 years, we had a third person sleeping with us on the same bed.

In the morning before she left we thanked her for spending the night with us. By that time we ourselves were relaxed as well. After she walked out of the door, my husband and I sat down and spoke about whatever happened in the night.

He clearly asked me how I felt about the threesome idea. I was honest to tell him that I did have fun but more than that I was happy that we tried it out. It’s been eight months now that we had our first threesome encounter.

My thinking about the threesome factor has changed

To be honest, the misconceptions that I had about this concept have changed. Sometimes breaking away from your comfort zone and getting in a little spice into your sex life is not wrong. The only catch here is that you should know your boundaries even if it is getting into a threesome. We both still have sex with our new found partner but this is a once in a month affair and not more than that. My hubby is even thinking we should go further afield than a London send try Luton escorts or even Kent escorts however i am happy with the escort we book now.

Having a threesome brought in a new perspective to our life. It has brought in a positive change and has broken the monotony of our lives. Today in a way we are in an open marriage, the difference is that our open marriage does involve the both us together in it.

I Fell In Love In My Escort

I had always wondered what people meant when they said that true love was found in the most unexpected of places. I had always dismissed this saying and considered it ridiculous until I met my wife at… You guessed it! In a place and situation that I would have never imagined even in my wildest dream. She was an escort maybe one of the best croydon escorts at the time and I met her by chance when I booked her and ended up falling in love. Here is how it all started…

Five years ago, I got divorced from my wife who I had been married to for seven years. The divorce was messy and when it was finalized, I was really drained. I remember at a time swearing that I would never get married again or get myself in a serious romantic relationship. Because of the stress that the divorce process was giving me coupled with the court battles for the full custody of my two sons, I had gone for over six months without getting laid. It was my older brother who suggested that I needed to get going and the only way I would succeed in doing that was to find a replacement for Becky ( Becky is the name of my ex-wife). After all the drama that Becky had made me go through, my faith in women had disappeared completely. There was no way I was going to jump from one failed relationship to another. The only sure and drama-free way in which I could enjoy the companionship of a female without having any emotions involved was by booking an escort. I had considered Essex escorts at first, then i checked out the best Luton escorts before i settled on Croydon escorts.

This was my first time seeking the services of an escort and I had no idea on where to start. It begun with a simple Google search about escorting agencies offering escorting services near me. I clicked on the first search result that appeared and browsed over the photos of the escorts who were featured in that agency’s website. All the girls looked very sexy and varied. There were redheads, blondes and brunettes. And there were blacks, Hispanics, whites and Asians. The girl who caught my attention was a thirty-something year old and she was a blue-eyed blonde. She had everything that I looked for in a woman. A tall, slim figure with shapely boobs. I then called the agency in order to fix an appointment with her. Unfortunately, it turned out that the girl had already been booked by another client and as such, I was forced to settle for my second best.
That is how I met Alyssa, my now dear beloved wife. I knew Alyssa was different from the instant she stepped inside my hotel room. She looked so delicate…so fragile and so innocent. Her whole demeanor was of someone who was silently begging to be rescued. She was not the overconfident, cocky escort that I expected her to be. Her vulnerability and innocence drew me to her like aluminium fillings to a magnet. When I asked her how she got in the escorting scene, she explained to me that she was a finalist in college and since she came from a poor family, she had to look for ways of making ends meet. Having come from a family that was not very rich myself, I perfectly understood. We spent the entire session talking. Remember I had just gone through a terrible divorce and I greatly needed a listening ear. Someone who I could vent my frustrations to and rant. Her ability to listen, her honesty and openness filled me with a deep desire to just wrap my arms around her and protect her from life.

We agreed to meet again the following day and thus our journey to love begun. Several days after and one year later, we got married. We have now been married for two and a half years and we are expecting our first child together early November. Alyssa quit escorting shortly after meeting me and she now has her own business as a fashion designer. She is the polar opposite of my ex-wife. She is calm, understanding and loving. My two kinds from my previous marriage immediately took to her and they love her like she is their biological mom. If someone had told me three years ago that my future wife and love would be part of the sexy Charlotte escorts, I would have looked at them as if they had lost all their marbles. Making that decision to book an escort turned out to be the best decision I have ever made!

Make Sex Interesting In Marriages

The most used marketing strategy has always been Sex Sells. I have heard this slogan and I believe that it is true, but have I ever stopped and thought about it? Why does sex sell? If I have a better job, new car, fresher breath, whiter teeth, shiner hair, or fancy cloths, will my chances of having sex be improved after 20 years? Or will Heathrow escorts, Luton escorts or croydon escorts be a better fit a passionate experience. Perhaps; but why will this type of advertising also work on people that already have a sexual partner?

It is because sex is one of the most powerful motivator of human action known to science. For anyone that have done research about human needs know that sex is in the number one slot along with eating and breathing even after staying for more than 20 years with my wife.
Men’s response to aging caused by andropause, resembles women’s loss of fertility caused by menopause. In a younger age, female partner may have the complaint that ‘he finishes before I get aroused’ and in the old age, men may take a long time to get turned on. The arousal gets slow and the person may lose the stimuli immediately on slight distraction. A powerful erection becomes a tough thing and full-ejaculations get unfeasible. Less than nine percent of aging men think about supplements to empower their bodies, although holistic cures for the problem not only provide improvement in reproductive health but a complete renewal of body systems.

Sex will have a positive effect on every organ in my body including my brain and for the person like me who has a wife it can be the cheapest and most beneficial regiment I can get into as I age. There are a lot of chemicals and hormones involved in the lovemaking act and I am not going into the details here. There are plenty of articles written that subject and what I am trying to accomplish here is to get me to notice how it will affect me. Its like if I take a 500 mg tablet of Vitamin B at night before I go to bed, if I are paying attention to my body, I will notice an increase in my energy level the next morning.

The same thing holds true for sex. Do I notice a slight improvement in my energy level, stress level, outlook on life the next day? Of course I do. The trick is to take good honest look at how it affects my body and how long it lasts. If I are having sex only once a month and the effects only last a couple of days then I will obviously not get all of the possible benefits from it.

One thing I know is that after a period of time I will not be able to perform well after 20 years with my wife. There is a whole host of reasons why this happens and in most cases it is not important. What is important is it will require a sustained effort to increase the occurrences of the lovemaking act after 20 years. Now I can’t just go and jump on my wife anytime I like to have sex with her. I will have to discuss it with her and determine the level I would like both us to reach and at what rate I would like proceed.

If I am a reasonably health individual a low energy level can kill my sex drive faster than almost anything else. Taking vitamins and supplements to improve the blood supply or the ability of the blood cells to carry oxygen will help to improve the energy levels after 20 years.

If I am a drug addict I should stop as I age since drugs like caffeine and alcohol have severe effects on male sexual health. Regular intake of both of them may completely devastate a man’s sexual life, especially if he is already suffering from low libido. Cigarette smoking is also very harmful while sexual drive is concerned. Not only sexual health, it can badly affect my overall health.

Vitamin E supplies Oxygen to the heart and the other muscles in my body. Accelerates wound healing and aids in the functioning of the immune system.

I can also eat bananas: This posses an enzyme called bromelain. they can boost my libido. It also increases the energy of the body and also in production of sex hormone

Flavonoids are the brightly colored pigments found in most fruits and vegetables. When I consume them, they have antioxidant properties and have been associated with improved lung junction.

Hawthorn has an high concentration of anti-oxidants and can help remove toxins in the brain and can strengthens the blood vessels which helps get oxygen and nutrients transported to the brain as the brain is a powerful element when it comes to sex.

I should include enough protein in his daily diet. I should be careful about carbohydrate intake as it is not good for overall health as well as sexual health. Adequate amount of essential monosaturated fatty acids should also be included in a man’s regular diet chart. Since Provacyl is a good source of libido boosting herbs, I can regularly consume it for having better sexual health.

I should also have eight hours of sound sleep as sleep ensures proper and sufficient rest which is needed for maintaining overall health along with sexual health after 20 years. There is no alternative to adequate sleep. Sleep helps nerves to calm down. It helps my brain to work properly. And, as we all know, brain controls every physiological and psychological functions of human body including sexual activities. Sleep ensures relaxation and thus can help me to regain energy and stamina. Proper sleep also ensures good sexual health including longer libido and stronger penile erection. A natural libido enhancement pill can be tried out to revive stamina and restore libido so so to have a powerful sex exercise with my wife.
If I just feel that I need vitamins, supplements or herbs so that I make the sex with my wife more spontaneous after 20 years then I should find a good health care professional prior to taking any action.

I Love Seeing London Escorts

Over the last few years, I have developed an addiction I cannot seem to overcome. I am a businessman and I work in London. My addiction is that I have formed a habit of hiring the services of London escorts now and then. Although the services these escorts offer are exemplary and everything to die for, there is something that is making me feel extremely guilty-I am a married man. My wife does not know anything about this and I terribly fear for the day she will find out. I have only confided to a very close friend of mine who is also a co-worker. He told me that as long as it was only sex with no emotions involved, then it is not cheating. Is this really true? That it only amounts to cheating if you develop emotional feelings to the person you are cheating with? Here is my full story…

I am 42, and my wife and I have been married for over thirteen years. We became sweethearts back in high school. We both live in London and we have two kids together aged seven and nine. For the better part of our marriage life, I believe I have been the best husband that I could possibly have been. I have a successful career and a job that pays really well. We always spend the holidays together and get to enjoy everything that couples in London do. On the surface, we seem to have everything that anyone could ever want, but underneath, our sex life is far from being ideal.

I am a very emotional, passionate and sexual person. I have a very strong libido which my wife cannot seem to fulfil. This is the main reason why I have been secretly loving hiring the services of the best professional London escorts. My wife is the polar opposite of my very nature. Whereas I am passionate and emotional, she is very cold-like and non-emotional. From time to time, I have described her as my “ice queen”. We are both physically attractive. Over the years, I have formed a habit of working out rigorously and this has helped me keep fit and be in a good shape. I look way younger than I really am. From the time I first saw my wife, I have always found her sexy and physically attractive. By her own words, she also finds me attractive, physically or otherwise. She is the type of a woman who puts her career first before her marriage. We have had major disagreements about this and more than twice in our thirteen years of marriage, she has chosen her work over my opinions and feelings. For me, this has always been a very sticking point and as much as I try, I cannot bring myself to forgiving her for it; another problem.

As you may have deduced from above, this has made our sex life very problematic. My strong libido makes me want to make love to her a whole lot more than she ever agrees to. Another problem is that she has never tried to initiate sex, ever! This frustrates me so much as it feels like I am begging her for sex. She completely gets turned on by me, and when we have sex, she gets completely satisfied. She at one time told me that as much as she enjoys having sex with me, she can do just fine without it. With my strong sex drive, I can have sex three times or more a day if given a chance, but my wife does not let me. We even go for weeks without making love.

My problem started three years ago when I attended a stag do for one of my friends. When there, I met this beautiful girl who turned out to be an escort in London. We had a really great time, better than I had ever had with my wife. After hooking up with her for several weeks, she introduced me to some of her girlfriends who are also in the London escorting industry. This is where my addiction for London escorts started. Why do I find them irresistible?

They put my needs first.

Unlike my wife who prioritizes her career over our marriage and/or sex life, the Heathrow escorts, Watford escorts or Essex escorts (depending on the area i am in) I have been seeing have always strived to please me. They put my needs and desires first and always make sure that everything I want is taken care of.

Variety.

I think I am talking on behalf of all men out there when I say that variety is the spice of life. My wife will always be the way she has always been and will never change to suit my tastes. When it comes to London escorts, they all come in different shapes, sizes and races. My wife is white and blonde and as such, she will never fulfil my penchant for black, Latino or Asian women. With London escorts, I have been able to satisfy my tastes and preferences every single day the need arises.

They are professionals.

Like I said before, my wife has never initiated sex before. She has always waited for me to, even sometimes turning down my advances. The London escorts I have been with do not shy away from anything and they get down to business as soon as I give them the go-ahead signal and she is agreeing as a consenting adult.

I could keep going on but the bottom line is that as much as I love my wife, she can never measure up to the escorts that I have been with so far. Also worth mentioning is that I only seek their services because I find it fulfilling, convenient and easy. I feel no emotional attachments to any of the escorts and our rendezvous is a no-strings-attached kind of a thing. As much as my conscience keeps on telling me that I should not be doing this, my body completely disagrees. If only my wife is as receptive and as passionate as these London escorts! I do not want to bring our marriage to an end. And this brings me back to my question- Since I feel no emotions towards these escorts, am I really cheating on my wife, or have I just found a convenient, easily available means of fulfilling my needs?

Anything that happens with charlotte London escorts is between you and the escort as two consenting adult.

I’m a sex addict, my girlfriends think i like sex to much but i can’t get enough

I have had a girlfriend for about three years now and I have a problem. I need too much sex. A lot of people assume that this means that I am just horny all the time and that is partially true but the fact of the matter is that I don’t just want sexual experiences, I need them. It’s almost like I can’t function without it.

I have sex with my girlfriend about three times every day, and it’s not nearly enough. After the third time she tells me that she is too tired to do it anymore and I understand completely but I just can’t help it! She thinks that I just like sex too much, but if only this were true. I like donuts too, I love pizza, but if I don’t get these things every day I am going to be just fine. I might have a bit of a craving for these things but it doesn’t affect my day to day life in any way.

Sex is different. If I don’t masturbate or have sex for two hours I start to lose concentration, I have to get the poison out of me otherwise I would not be able to focus on work or whatever it is that I am doing in that moment. Since my girlfriend naturally can’t handle my sex drive, I have turned to London escorts.

I feel really guilty about it, but at the same time I kind of love it. London escorts are so sexy, and there is so much variety to be had here! I can choose the kind of London escorts that I want and that is the end of that, and this makes it easier for me to satisfy my addiction.. They are expensive but money has never really been an issue for me, I have always been quite privileged. This is why I am so eager to jump on this opportunity.

A lot of people would probably judge me for this, but I am not doing this just because I want to cheat. I love my girlfriend, I want her to be in my life for the long haul. I just can’t stop myself from needing sex. I have tried to get treatment for it time and time again but people don’t believe me, they just think what you all are probably thinking right now, that I am a terrible person who has no problems cheating on the people he is dating. I keep trying to assure people that this is not the case, I keep trying to tell them that in reality I am very faithful to my girlfriends. Even with the London escorts or hounslow escorts I don’t stick around, I get rid of what’s distracting me and get right out of there because I can’t bear the guilt of what I am doing. It’s only before I do it that I feel anticipation, and it’s not even because I feel horny it’s because I know that afterwards I will finally be able to think straight for at least a couple of hours.

Even if I didn’t have money I would be going for London escorts, except I would be going for the cheaper variety. If you have never seen the cheaper kind of London escorts trust me when I say that you are really lucky, because they are not very attractive at all. I would still go for them because I need it, and this should show you just how much this addiction is ruining my life.

This is starting to take a toll on my body. I can’t think straight, I can’t work properly, I can’t hold down a job. It’s starting to physically hurt because the act of sex is physically exerting and I don’t want to have to deal with this. My body is starting to get malnourished and I feel like if I keep doing this I am going to lose everything, and I am going to end up injuring myself in some way. I am afraid that this might cause a physical illness of some kind. Maybe if that happens people will start to believe me.

My girlfriend is starting to get very suspicious of me. She keeps asking me where I go every evening and why I often don’t answer her calls. It’s because I am with a London escort and i see a whole load of them from London escorts to dartford escorts and ealing escorts at that time. If she ever finds out she is going to break up with me, she is never going to understand that this is not something I am doing out of lust, it is something I am doing because I have no other option.

I am actually considering getting surgery done to reduce my sexual urges. The only problem is that I don’t want to stop having sex completely, I want to be able to have it in healthy amounts. I think the main thing is that I want to want it, not need it.

I have been experiencing this level of sex addiction from a very young age, and in the beginning I thought that it was normal because teenagers are supposed to be horny all the time. The only problem is that it was worse for me than it was for the other guys, and in my case I never grew out of it. I feel ashamed of myself all of the time, and I feel like I am a worthless human being.

This addiction is something that I have no control over. Everyone I say this to tells me that they are jealous of me, tells me that I am lucky to be able to have sex so often. If only they know that no part of this is fun for me in any way. If only they knew that this addiction is making it impossible for me to have any kind of a normal life. I wish that there was some way for me to get out of this situation I am in. I wish that there was some way for me to fix myself, but I feel like in my case there is no hope.