Threesome helped us to save our marriage

There comes a time when every marriage hits a point where you almost consider it as over. The same thing happened recently with our marriage. It’s been five years since we tied the knot and more than 10 years of courtship. Ever since the first day we laid eyes on each other, we just knew that we were meant to be.

Well, just like any other normal couple, we have had our share of fights, misunderstandings and tears. But things went a little too the extreme after I lost our first child due to a miscarriage. The pain that we both went through was not expressible considering that we were waiting to be parents.

It was during this phase where the frustration levels hit the peak. It went so bad that I even moved out of the house. The reality was that our marriage was going through a very tough phase. Considering that we have been in love with each other for more than 15 years; we did not want our marriage to break.

Hubby pops the big question and it is not Will you marry me

One day my husband asked if I could meet him at our favorite coffee shop. He wanted to talk about giving our marriage a chance. While talking things out, he came up with an insane idea and that’s when he said – Honey, let’s do something different to spice our life up. I was trying to figure out what he meant by it, he broke the bubble and suggested that we should try out a threesome

My first reaction was that I really couldn’t do it. Not that I was not a modern girl but just the idea of sharing the man of my life with somebody else did not go down with me. After a long time of talking the if’s and buts’ I finally gave in to the idea of having a threesome.

Although I had my reservations, I was still willing to give it a try only to save my marriage. For some this statement may sound cliché; but for those who are in an open marriage, you would definitely connect to what I am saying.

The hunt for the new partner in our life

Having agreed to give the whole threesome concept a shot, the next thing was to hunt for someone who was ok with sleeping with a couple. We checked a London escorts website and checked out the sexy escorts available today posted the need for a person who was willing to have sex with a couple. Within a week we got a response. It was a young girl who was in her late 20’s and she also was looking out for the same thing.

We met her at a coffee shop for the first time to talk things out. We even told her that this was the first time we were planning to have a threesome. She was fine with the whole thing and decided she wanted to do it as a consenting adult. That is when we decided to meet up during the weekend at our place.

The night that changed our lives

Since we were newbie’s with the threesome concept, she was the expert and our guru in a way. She came with a bag full of different sex toys and BDSM stuff. Her take on it was that it would make the threesome experience more interesting.

Before we ventured into our new adventure, she demonstrated the use of every toy. My hubby and I felt like oldies considering that we had no experience. But this girl was a sweetheart who was very patient with us.

We left everything up to her; it was natural that my hubby and I were a little hesitant at first to become intimate with a new partner. Prior to her arrival, my husband and I had spoken things out. He had already told me that this was not going to change the way he felt and neither did he have any ideas of cheating on me.

Moving on to the night, the adventure started with both of us getting into foreplay, after a while, she also came into the picture. She worked on both of us together, one hand on me and the other on my hubby, by the way she was moving it was clear; she was an expert in threesome.

As the night went one, we took turns of getting tied on bed, while my hubby was getting intimate with me, she was there by our side giving my hubby an anal sex with a dildo. The initial hesitation was long gone by then. As we progressed into the wee hours of the morning, the threesome experience become more interesting and fun.

We tried different positions and ways to have sex as well as used the different toys that she got. By early morning we all so tired from the entire threesome adventure of the night. For the first time in 15 years, we had a third person sleeping with us on the same bed.

In the morning before she left we thanked her for spending the night with us. By that time we ourselves were relaxed as well. After she walked out of the door, my husband and I sat down and spoke about whatever happened in the night.

He clearly asked me how I felt about the threesome idea. I was honest to tell him that I did have fun but more than that I was happy that we tried it out. It’s been eight months now that we had our first threesome encounter.

My thinking about the threesome factor has changed

To be honest, the misconceptions that I had about this concept have changed. Sometimes breaking away from your comfort zone and getting in a little spice into your sex life is not wrong. The only catch here is that you should know your boundaries even if it is getting into a threesome. We both still have sex with our new found partner but this is a once in a month affair and not more than that. My hubby is even thinking we should go further afield than a London send try Luton escorts or even Kent escorts however i am happy with the escort we book now.

Having a threesome brought in a new perspective to our life. It has brought in a positive change and has broken the monotony of our lives. Today in a way we are in an open marriage, the difference is that our open marriage does involve the both us together in it.

Are swingers parties that exciting?

The term Swingers’ which is sometimes otherwise titled wife swapping’ or in this modern day and age partner swapping’, refers to non-monogamous couples who enjoy engaging in sexual acts with others as a leisure or social activity. Swingers’ parties are traditionally the meeting places for these like-minded and sexually open people. So, what goes on at a swingers party’, how do I get involved and where did this idea come from.
I have been sexually active since my late teens, my first experiences being hopelessly romantic. University however opened my eyes to a whole other world of sex. Sex was not just something sensual to be shared between two people who were in love. This was something bigger. It was something that could be used in many different ways, and indeed enjoyed in just as many. Once I realized that sex was in fact just sex, and was a thing that could be enjoyed without worries over taboos or judgments, I went in search of similarly minded people. What I found was astounding. I found that there were people everywhere who would use sex to spice up sex lives that otherwise lacked variety or indeed to explore a curiosity. My motivation was the latter. I did however also come across many people who were in committed relationships. These couples would seek at these parties that which they didn’t get at home. There were women in straight relationships that were bi-curious and so would long to be with a woman. There were couples who longed to share one. There were women who wanted to have sex with several men at the same time and men who wanted to be with multiple partners. These are the places that they were open to do so. Places where sexual curiosity and the willingness to explore it were not only condoned or allowed but were in fact actually championed. Believe me, the more I looked, the more I found out that what is considered to be the norm’ for most people when it comes to sex in a relationship, was not the norm’ for everyone.

I found out that swinging’ as a social or leisure activity began during the sexual revolution’ in the sixties, an era renowned for its free love’ attitude. A time firmly steeped in a fight for peoples’ rights. Women’s liberation and civil rights and in amongst it all there was another fight; the one for sexual liberation. People fought for the right to explore their own sexual desires and appetites as well as those of others and to do so without fear of reprisals social or otherwise. The more that I delved into this unseen world and the more that I found out, the more I wanted to get involved.

I was in my early twenties when I attended the first of what was to become a fair few Swingers’ parties. I had been sexually active for years; years that had been spent learning and experimenting as best I could in your average or normal’ sexual relationship. I was, in my own estimation at least, hitting my sexual peak. I was now more confident than I had been in previous years and had overcome many an insecurity that would have stood in my way beforehand. I was in a great relationship with a sexy young Spanish girl with whom I had some of the best sex of my life so far. It was wild and passionate as well as experimental. We would talk openly about our desires and fantasies and though I found out that hers were a touch more intense than my own, I also saw a freedom in the honesty. Why should we settle for sex that leaves certain desires unfulfilled? But that being said, where does one go to explore these dark desires that we had now made real by speaking out loud? So we went in search of this sexual liberation and found it in the form of a friend of mine. This guy had been my friend for years and there were even times that we probably would have shared a girl and had a threesome if it hadn’t been for taboo and judgement (sexual freedoms worst enemy it seems). One evening I ended up talking with him at dinner as our girlfriends chatted on the other side of the table. To my surprise he told me that he and his girlfriend had been having similar conversations lately. We decided that we were too good friends to risk jumping into bed together and experimenting with each other’s better half and so we began to look for swingers parties’ in our city. There were a few to be found when we looked in the right places. We chose what looked like the classiest one and signed up eager to attend.

There we all were, dressed up and at the door of a large Victorian house on the edge of the city. This was beautiful. We were greeted with champagne as we joined a hall full of other couples which included some cheap London escorts, surrey escorts and some canary wharf escorts who all looked as excited and nervous as we did. First we talked and laughed with attractive members of the collective flock, then as the bubbles kicked in and the tension rose, the flirting turned to touching and kissing. The party was split into three areas, each more intense than the next. It being my first party, I only made it to the first room where sex with multiple partners was as steamy as it got. My girlfriend had moved on to the next room in search of that which we came for and left me in the care of three young women. Limitations tested and hunger sated, we reconvened a little later on and left the party in a quiet collection of smiles. The next day we got together to talk about it.

The discussion made me realize that if you are open and honest with yourself and your partner then yes, for the right couples Swingers parties’ can be very exciting indeed.

I Fantasise About A Threesome

My boyfriend works for this tech company out on Canary Wharf. It is a rather young company, and even the managing director of the company, is only in his late 20’s. To be honest, the MD of the company is one of the sexiest guys I have ever seen. When I happen to bump into him, I can’t take my eyes of his body, and the ways he moves turns me on like mad. He has got this dark almost sultry look about him, and I have always liked that kind of look. With his dark bedroom eyes, it feels like he can look into my soul.

Sinful Dreams

It is a very friendly company to work for, and the staff spend a lot of their social time together as well. I am often invited out for drinks, and sometimes, the MD phones me up to make sure I am coming. I am not sure if he is just being friendly, or if he fancies me. Maybe he saw my old profile as an sexy Luton escorts on Charlotte London escorts. One thing I do know, is that I fancy him like mad, and he has even managed to make his way into my fantasies. The other night, I woke up around midnight. As I woke, I realised I had been dreaming about Nick, the MD of the company where my boyfriend works. I had been at this Swinger’s party in east London, and all of a sudden he turned up. He was wearing this white shirt which was open to the waist and a pair of nice dress trousers. It looked like he had been to the opera or something, and just undone his shirt because he was too hot. His upper body gleamed of a little bit of sweat. I stood here looking at him, trying to fight the urge to reach out to stroke his hairy chest and touch his nipples. I was so wet and horny I felt I had to take my Rabbit vibrator out and enjoy some personal satisfaction. As I laid there, letting the vibrator slowly bring me to a climax, Nick crept into my sexual fantasies.

Sinful Pleasures

I have never been to a Swinger’s party but it does not mean I do not have certain dreams and fantasies which I would not mind experiencing. When I was younger, I remember seeing this porn movie with two men and one girl. It looked so good, and it is one of those images which I have never been able to get out of my mind. For some reason it has stuck, and I think about the movie a lot. As I laid there, letting good vibrations overcome me and letting my fantasies wander in and out, I all of a sudden thought about Nick. I realised I wanted to experience a threesome with him, and I wondered if he would be up for that. There was no way I would like my boyfriend to lose his job, and Nick to think less of me. However, the thought of having a threesome with my boyfriend and his boss, stayed with me for the rest of the day.

Sexy Investments

I could not get the fantasy out of my head, and as I was having the day off from work, I decided to do a little shopping. A couple of hours later, I ended up in Soho checking out some sexy fantasy lingerie. I had never been to a sex shop in Soho, but my mind was now so focused on a threesome with my boyfriend and his boss, that I could hardly think about anything else. Anxiously, I eyed up my purchases. It was not the type of lingerie I would normally buy, and I had almost felt driven by some unseen force to buy it. I knew we would all be going out that weekend, and I wanted to have some special on. Hopefully I would be able to show Nick a least of hint of what I had on underneath my little black cocktail dress.

Sweet Confessions of a London escort Girl

That Saturday night, we all went out to dinner in this place we normally hang out in. Nick ended sitting on one side of me, and my boyfriend on the other. I felt as though I was already sandwiched in between, and found it hard not to hide my excitement. Desperately I tried to contain myself, but I soon realised both men sensed I was excited. I kept reaching out to touch my boyfriend, and every time I did so, I could feel Nick’s dark bedroom eyes look at me. From where he was sitting, he could easily see a bit of the lazy bra I had bought, and I wondered if he realised the two small discreet clips on my bracelets were nipple clamps. Could this possible get any better? My head was still full of crazy and intimate fantasies about the two men in my life. I dreamed of us having a threesome in a hotel room. Nice crisp sheets, and three bodies moving in unison. I was wearing my new sexy lingerie, and Nick had just helped me to put my nipple clamps on. I soon realised I was the star of that old porn I had seen so many years ago. Yes, I would love to have a chance to act that scene as a fantasy role play, but I did not know what Nick would think about me. Was he open minded to new adventures, or would he think I was a complete whore. I did not know, and decided not to take my fantasy any further that night, but the dream was still there. When we came home that night, my boyfriend and I had sex like we never had it before. He asked me what was up when he saw my new gear, and I told I fancied a change. As a matter of fact, I do believe I even got around to asking him if he would like to try something totally different with me. What that was, I am going to leave up to your own personal imagination… perhaps we will meet in fantasy land one day. Would you like that? I will make sure I bring my nipple clamps for that special touch.

My wife has suggested a threesome with London escorts!

Well at first I did not know what to make of this development, is it that I am not doing good in bed? Am I boring? I thought we were happy… At first, the idea came as a shocker to me but then again am sitting there thinking what the heck, at least it wasn’t my idea!’ plus I have always heard that London escorts are great, excellent even. So this said and done I have been doing my research which was after a lengthy chat with my wife on why she thinks we should involve ourselves in polyamory. Ever since a fortnight ago I have been brooding on the subject; you will find my browser history with stuff like polyamory’;best London escort’; pros for threesomes’; croydon escorts for threesomes et cetera. I admit am surprised at how widely the subject has been explored on the internet! I bet you were also looking for something of the sorts when you landed on this great article on my experience. So for you, my reader, I will explore my case, which may be your predicament, from a structured perspective; slack comfortably into your seat and let me take you on my journey to find London escorts.

Why look for escorts if you have been happily married?

The first question that came to my mind when she suggested that we should have a London escort for a threesome was; what exactly is she thinking? From my research, I discovered that many couples out there have been on the same road at least once in their life. The main reason behind this matter was the fact that one or both of them is more sexually adventurous. Others, however, said their relationship had grown dull over many years of their being together. Well, till now I don’t think I know the reason as to why she so badly wants to be sexually adventurous. Am guessing a bit of both –true that when you stay with the same person for a long while things get murky and dull. Plus I also have to admit that my wife is more adventurous than I thought. Now am torn between being enthusiastic and whether to act cool about it… but anyway I have to say am taking her quite seriously and I have been doing my research on several London escorts charges et cetera. But as I was searching for the best escorts, I came across an article in the Huffington post by Kitty Stryker about reasons why couples should give thought to having a booking with the best bisexual escorts for couples for a threesome.

From hearsay, London escorts are pros in their profession. After reading the post, I realized that the first thing to know about professional escorts is that should not be a threat to your marriage. This is my first concern, which I guess is everyone’s worry too when looking for an escort. I bet you don’t want to have a good time today only to break up with your wife of ten years soon after. We’ve had a serious discussion about this with my with my wife –I needed her assurance that whatever the outcome of the escort there would be not issues after that interaction. Another reason why I spent time looking for a professional in this field is the fact that I don’t think it will be much help to us if we get mediocre performance when we get to it! I mean come on, if you’re going to do it why not get someone who knows what they are doing? Plus I am spending money on the services, so yes! I think it’s just right if I get value for the money am spending. Mind you at the time of writing this article we haven’t decided with whom or when to do this, but I think I already know what am looking for. So if you are on the same path like me make sure you do your research well. Moreover, set some ground rules to make certain that you don’t have a fall out after that (that is if you care about your partner like I do).

I’ll try to be subtle about my expectations for the night if it happens.

The best you can do is have realistic expectations of the evening and remain cool about the outcome of the evening. From a professional point of view, you should let loose when it happens but at the same time do not act as if it is the best thing that ever happened to you! This is because you do not want your partner feeling inadequate. So for our special night, I have planned to let her be in control of how the night turns out. Though we have heard a couple of discussions regarding the possibilities of the evening such as the positions that may be most appropriate and how we can maximize on the hours the night will offer us, I let my wife take charge of planning the whereabouts and the whatnots of the evening. I gathered that the evening should be done away from our home and if possible in a lodge somewhere out of town. This way we can avoid bumping into each other after we are done with our business for the night –plus you also don’t want nosey neighbors being all over your business gossiping about how immoral you guys have become. What am I attempting to put across here? You need to take the logistics of the night to consideration defining the nitty-gritty of what may become an amazing experience or even a turning point for your marriage.

One last thing before I pen off, you need to know that statistics indicate that having threesomes have been proven to lead to open relationships. You need to think carefully about whether you really need London escorts messing with your life because once you take that path –I believe there is no going back. I have made my peace with this fact because I love my wife and I will do everything to keep her and my marriage happy. So yes, I am looking forward to the threesome that my wife suggested with the best London escorts agency, it should be great.

THREESOMES WITH ESCORTS

Having sex is an important part of every marriage and relationship yet at times having sex with the same person can sometimes make one tired and sick. Every couple fights to keep their relationship going for a long time so when their sex life starts experiencing problems they look for ways to spice it up one of the ways couples use is having a threesome.

London escort services allow their clients to be intimate with their escorts.an opportunity such as this are really helpful to people who don’t want to go out searching for partners to pay and sleep with having a threesome is an extreme measure to some measure since it means being intimate and doing private things with a stranger.a person who is not comfortable with being intimate with their escorts can make a familiar environment by inviting their partner to come this helps them to be themselves and hence not making the session awkward.

Adding zing to complexion’ sex life by having a threesome with a London escort can be a little intimidating for first-timers and this calls for having mutual ground among the three members.A leader is an important part of every group and in this case, the escort should be the leader since he is more experienced and confident.the leader is there to teach new ways to the couple and also to guide. A person should know him/herself and their desires this helps to know the dos and the don’t.the leader should see that everyone is comfortable and their desires are satisfied.styles to be used should be such that every member is comfortable with it and participates willingly.

The leader should make sure the member are conversant with the new styles they will introduce before starting officially. The participants also are expected to follow the rules played down before them to avoid any inconveniences that may arise as a result of breaking them all members should feel relaxed so as to ensure they enjoy the threesome reality.Having a threesome help to strengthen bonds between couples since before they decide to participate in it. They should have talked and agreed to do it.agreeing to a threesome means one trusts their partner band also the escort involved .this level of trust is high since its doing something private and intimate with a stranger. Cheap London escorts being experienced should talk with the partners and be sure they are both into it.Having a threesome to please the other may bring many problems to the relationship since it means one is being forced into something they don’t want and don’t agree to the also a relationship which suffers from insecurity issues can not be helped by a threesome.only couples who really trust each other and have a strong mutual bond between them should practice a threesome otherwise, it may cause great repercussions to the relationship. Before any couple invites an escort should ask themselves questions whether they will be able to look at their partners the same way after that day, also are they ready to share their partner with another?are they ready to share their most private and intimate part of their life with a stranger and many others.

If they are OK with and they have no problem they can go ahead since once you have a threesome there is no going back and love life changes. London escorts may be a person familiar or a stranger ,choosing a threesome partner depends on the couples preference whether they want a stranger or a person they are familiar with.some prefer a new person since there are no strings attached and they can do anything given its a one time thing, others go for familiar people to bring a comfortable environment. A partner also depends on ith who wants and suggested the idea of a threesome, If it’s the man then probably the escort will be a lady and if it’s the woman the escort may be a man.a threesome should involve every participant to avoid one feeling out of place and to make sure everybody is satisfied.

London escort services provide one with a choice, who you want from your preferences in height, its complexion, hair color and others .choosing what one wants makes the threesome fantasy come true. Safe sex should the priority of the experience whet hit’s two women one man or two men one woman.this may help avoid repercussions such as catching sexually transmitted diseases or even getting pregnant which should not happen.

London escorts love engaging in threesomes with men and women.Escorts can either meet you in a hotel lounge or they can come to your matrimonial bed.The girls offer both incall and outcall escorts services where they can meet you at any place you choose.This flexibility helps couples since the girls can meet them wherever they are.Organizing a dinner date is a good way of getting to know your escort.Both you and your partner will get to know her over over a meal and casual chat..Once you get to know your escort you can decide together whether you would like to take it to the next level.London escorts cater for everyone’s need in that they are bisexual hence both partners will be involved and be satisfied.They are also experienced hence the style they bring in the bedroom will be new and they know how to make both men and women interested during the session.This help spice up things in the bedroom hence help keep the sex life in the relationship on fire.A threesome is every man’s fantasy but it’s also some women’s fantasy, the idea of having two naked women usually has an arousing effect both partners.London escorts to ensure that there is no jealousy between the couple since the have no preference, this helps avoid the repercussions that may arise the next day when the couple has to face each other.A threesome spices up sex life in a relationship, but it has severe consequences if there was no high level of trust between the couple and also if one of the members has low self-esteem and has high levels of insecurity.