There comes a time when every marriage hits a point where you almost consider it as over. The same thing happened recently with our marriage. It’s been five years since we tied the knot and more than 10 years of courtship. Ever since the first day we laid eyes on each other, we just knew that we were meant to be.
Well, just like any other normal couple, we have had our share of fights, misunderstandings and tears. But things went a little too the extreme after I lost our first child due to a miscarriage. The pain that we both went through was not expressible considering that we were waiting to be parents.
It was during this phase where the frustration levels hit the peak. It went so bad that I even moved out of the house. The reality was that our marriage was going through a very tough phase. Considering that we have been in love with each other for more than 15 years; we did not want our marriage to break.
Hubby pops the big question and it is not Will you marry me
One day my husband asked if I could meet him at our favorite coffee shop. He wanted to talk about giving our marriage a chance. While talking things out, he came up with an insane idea and that’s when he said – Honey, let’s do something different to spice our life up. I was trying to figure out what he meant by it, he broke the bubble and suggested that we should try out a threesome
My first reaction was that I really couldn’t do it. Not that I was not a modern girl but just the idea of sharing the man of my life with somebody else did not go down with me. After a long time of talking the if’s and buts’ I finally gave in to the idea of having a threesome.
Although I had my reservations, I was still willing to give it a try only to save my marriage. For some this statement may sound cliché; but for those who are in an open marriage, you would definitely connect to what I am saying.
The hunt for the new partner in our life
Having agreed to give the whole threesome concept a shot, the next thing was to hunt for someone who was ok with sleeping with a couple. We checked a London escorts website and checked out the sexy escorts available today posted the need for a person who was willing to have sex with a couple. Within a week we got a response. It was a young girl who was in her late 20’s and she also was looking out for the same thing.
We met her at a coffee shop for the first time to talk things out. We even told her that this was the first time we were planning to have a threesome. She was fine with the whole thing and decided she wanted to do it as a consenting adult. That is when we decided to meet up during the weekend at our place.
The night that changed our lives
Since we were newbie’s with the threesome concept, she was the expert and our guru in a way. She came with a bag full of different sex toys and BDSM stuff. Her take on it was that it would make the threesome experience more interesting.
Before we ventured into our new adventure, she demonstrated the use of every toy. My hubby and I felt like oldies considering that we had no experience. But this girl was a sweetheart who was very patient with us.
We left everything up to her; it was natural that my hubby and I were a little hesitant at first to become intimate with a new partner. Prior to her arrival, my husband and I had spoken things out. He had already told me that this was not going to change the way he felt and neither did he have any ideas of cheating on me.
Moving on to the night, the adventure started with both of us getting into foreplay, after a while, she also came into the picture. She worked on both of us together, one hand on me and the other on my hubby, by the way she was moving it was clear; she was an expert in threesome.
As the night went one, we took turns of getting tied on bed, while my hubby was getting intimate with me, she was there by our side giving my hubby an anal sex with a dildo. The initial hesitation was long gone by then. As we progressed into the wee hours of the morning, the threesome experience become more interesting and fun.
We tried different positions and ways to have sex as well as used the different toys that she got. By early morning we all so tired from the entire threesome adventure of the night. For the first time in 15 years, we had a third person sleeping with us on the same bed.
In the morning before she left we thanked her for spending the night with us. By that time we ourselves were relaxed as well. After she walked out of the door, my husband and I sat down and spoke about whatever happened in the night.
He clearly asked me how I felt about the threesome idea. I was honest to tell him that I did have fun but more than that I was happy that we tried it out. It’s been eight months now that we had our first threesome encounter.
My thinking about the threesome factor has changed
To be honest, the misconceptions that I had about this concept have changed. Sometimes breaking away from your comfort zone and getting in a little spice into your sex life is not wrong. The only catch here is that you should know your boundaries even if it is getting into a threesome. We both still have sex with our new found partner but this is a once in a month affair and not more than that. My hubby is even thinking we should go further afield than a London send try Luton escorts or even Kent escorts however i am happy with the escort we book now.
Having a threesome brought in a new perspective to our life. It has brought in a positive change and has broken the monotony of our lives. Today in a way we are in an open marriage, the difference is that our open marriage does involve the both us together in it.