I LOVE SEX ROLE PLAY

It is wonderful to be in a healthy and long-term relationship, be it platonic or sexual. However, you can not go with the both for really long. There is a next level and there will be a point when you and your partner will jump on to it. There is no fix time to take a relationship to the next level, it can happen in few days to few months.

So, if you are one of them who took their relationship to next level long back and have scored home run many times then chances are you can be looking for something new to add to your sexual relationship. After all, at the initial stage, it is the new body, new energy, new smell, new taste, and new orgasm. It is all so exciting then! But once you start sleeping with the same partner, eventually things get monotonous, you get stuck in a routine.

 

But no worries! There are so many ways to break this monotony. From new places to new positions, you can try anything anywhere! And one of such thing is sex role play.

 

Sexual roleplay, also known as foreplay is not a new idea but it is a good one as it works every time. You can create as many sensual scenarios as you want to explore.

 

Taking a new identity sounds intimidating but all your apprehensions will vanish in no time. And if you are wondering about the ideas of sex role play then the sky is the limit. However, here are few of them just to get you on your toes:-

 

●  Teacher and Pupil

This sexual roleplay is the one where there is no one person remains submissive or master. Both the partners are not at par but they can switch the role of teacher and pupil as when they want to.

It might not be possible for a newbie out of college teacher to control a freaky or disobedient student, or a witty college professor is having this sexy freshman hanging on every word that professor says.

Students having crushes on their teacher is not a new thing but the question is, how do the two control their desire so that they do not end up in a burning scandal.

 

●  Boss and the Secretary

If you are looking for something like BDSM, where one is dominant and other is the slave then this sexual roleplay gets a thumbs up. For an introduction to bondage’ this is a great way.

 

One of you can be the boss and other can play the role of an eager-to-please assistant. To set the mood or make the role play more convicting add costumes. The boss in suit and secretary in some skimpy outfit. Your secretary has not been working efficiently since past few days and paperwork has now mounted up. Since it is urgent to finish it ASAP, you both get to work on it after the office hours.

 

And for more on this you can (must) watch  “the Secretary” together.

 

●  Home Delivery

There is something really turning on about having sex with a stranger.

Imagine a hot pizza delivery boy rings the bell and you answering it in your sensual lingerie.

You are sorry as you have no money to pay and you ask him if there is any other way to settle the due?

I know some ways in which you can repay me.’, he says.

 

●  The Hitchhiker

Bid adieu to your inhibitions and take the sexual roleplay fantasies outside your bedroom (in fact, home). How about you taking it to the car or a truck? Just go out and pick a total stranger, as you know there is something really turning on……..

 

Arrange a pint from A to B for yourself and your partner.

The hitchhiker is standing by the road have somewhere to go but you do not believe in charity. So, it is cool if he cannot pay money but you both are adults and you are sure that you can find other ways for him to repay your kindness!

 

●  Doctor and the Nurse

It might sound a bit cliche and quite old and yet it is followed happily because it is many’s time-honoured favorites. It could be because sensuous nurses and dashing doctors make a best sexual roleplay than professor and student or boss and secretary.

The doctor tries to find out the problem, however, those hands might stumble upon some place naughtier. And soon you will be given a service that you will fall sick now and then!

 

●  Man-Maid service

You are a bachelor living in a messed up apartment. It’s been weeks that you have cleaned it up and it’s high time you call someone to get the job done. How about this service you get from a French cleaning maid?

 

Imagine to your surprise that this sexy maid in her tantalizing service outfit shows up at your door and clean everything dirty. Moreover, when you will bend and try to reach for those hard to reach areas under the sofa or bed, it will certainly give him a show that will be impossible to resist.

You can also do role reversal in this sexual role play. A man showing up on a woman’s doorstep, an overworked professional who is working from home that particular day.

 

●  Not so naive

One of you can pretend to be a naysayer who doesn’t know even the meaning of sex or just has read about it in the books. So, it is time for the master to give some practical lessons to his or her student.

●  Fireman

Do you need anything more. Of course, you (just like everyone else) know that any guy who has ever worked with a fire department has been unreasonably hot.

 

●  The Client and the Masseuse

Lit few candles, set the mood, snag sexy massage oil, and give each other some massage until and unless you both are feeling silky, smooth and ready to be touched further.

The whole thing can be summed up in just two words “Happy Ending”.

 

● The Secret Admirer

You can play the role of a sexy diva. Just put your best gown, do your hair & makeup, and let you secret admirer go gaga over you.

 

The Prostitute and the client

 

You could play the Richard Gere guy hiring a prostitute for companionship

 

 

If You have no one to act out these fantasies you could always book a London escort and it doesn’t have to end sexually unless you decide a two consenting adults that you want it to.

Are swingers parties that exciting?

The term Swingers’ which is sometimes otherwise titled wife swapping’ or in this modern day and age partner swapping’, refers to non-monogamous couples who enjoy engaging in sexual acts with others as a leisure or social activity. Swingers’ parties are traditionally the meeting places for these like-minded and sexually open people. So, what goes on at a swingers party’, how do I get involved and where did this idea come from.
I have been sexually active since my late teens, my first experiences being hopelessly romantic. University however opened my eyes to a whole other world of sex. Sex was not just something sensual to be shared between two people who were in love. This was something bigger. It was something that could be used in many different ways, and indeed enjoyed in just as many. Once I realized that sex was in fact just sex, and was a thing that could be enjoyed without worries over taboos or judgments, I went in search of similarly minded people. What I found was astounding. I found that there were people everywhere who would use sex to spice up sex lives that otherwise lacked variety or indeed to explore a curiosity. My motivation was the latter. I did however also come across many people who were in committed relationships. These couples would seek at these parties that which they didn’t get at home. There were women in straight relationships that were bi-curious and so would long to be with a woman. There were couples who longed to share one. There were women who wanted to have sex with several men at the same time and men who wanted to be with multiple partners. These are the places that they were open to do so. Places where sexual curiosity and the willingness to explore it were not only condoned or allowed but were in fact actually championed. Believe me, the more I looked, the more I found out that what is considered to be the norm’ for most people when it comes to sex in a relationship, was not the norm’ for everyone.

I found out that swinging’ as a social or leisure activity began during the sexual revolution’ in the sixties, an era renowned for its free love’ attitude. A time firmly steeped in a fight for peoples’ rights. Women’s liberation and civil rights and in amongst it all there was another fight; the one for sexual liberation. People fought for the right to explore their own sexual desires and appetites as well as those of others and to do so without fear of reprisals social or otherwise. The more that I delved into this unseen world and the more that I found out, the more I wanted to get involved.

I was in my early twenties when I attended the first of what was to become a fair few Swingers’ parties. I had been sexually active for years; years that had been spent learning and experimenting as best I could in your average or normal’ sexual relationship. I was, in my own estimation at least, hitting my sexual peak. I was now more confident than I had been in previous years and had overcome many an insecurity that would have stood in my way beforehand. I was in a great relationship with a sexy young Spanish girl with whom I had some of the best sex of my life so far. It was wild and passionate as well as experimental. We would talk openly about our desires and fantasies and though I found out that hers were a touch more intense than my own, I also saw a freedom in the honesty. Why should we settle for sex that leaves certain desires unfulfilled? But that being said, where does one go to explore these dark desires that we had now made real by speaking out loud? So we went in search of this sexual liberation and found it in the form of a friend of mine. This guy had been my friend for years and there were even times that we probably would have shared a girl and had a threesome if it hadn’t been for taboo and judgement (sexual freedoms worst enemy it seems). One evening I ended up talking with him at dinner as our girlfriends chatted on the other side of the table. To my surprise he told me that he and his girlfriend had been having similar conversations lately. We decided that we were too good friends to risk jumping into bed together and experimenting with each other’s better half and so we began to look for swingers parties’ in our city. There were a few to be found when we looked in the right places. We chose what looked like the classiest one and signed up eager to attend.

There we all were, dressed up and at the door of a large Victorian house on the edge of the city. This was beautiful. We were greeted with champagne as we joined a hall full of other couples which included some cheap London escorts, surrey escorts and some canary wharf escorts who all looked as excited and nervous as we did. First we talked and laughed with attractive members of the collective flock, then as the bubbles kicked in and the tension rose, the flirting turned to touching and kissing. The party was split into three areas, each more intense than the next. It being my first party, I only made it to the first room where sex with multiple partners was as steamy as it got. My girlfriend had moved on to the next room in search of that which we came for and left me in the care of three young women. Limitations tested and hunger sated, we reconvened a little later on and left the party in a quiet collection of smiles. The next day we got together to talk about it.

The discussion made me realize that if you are open and honest with yourself and your partner then yes, for the right couples Swingers parties’ can be very exciting indeed.