When I got married to her thirteen years ago, I never thought that there would come a time when I would entertain the thought of cheating on my wife, let alone do it with a prostitute! How things change and how life takes a turn on events that we never dreamt of. I have this deep feeling in me that I have to have sex with my wife in order to feel more connected. And the more sex I have, the better. But my wife’s biological faculties have decided to stand on the way, hence the main reason why I book sexy cheap escorts. This is how my habit of booking sex with escorts started…
I am a thirty nine years old man, married to a beautiful 37 years old woman. We got married thirteen years ago and together, we have two kids- a ten year old boy and a seven year old girl. During our early years of our marriage, our sex life was near perfect and ensuring that there was mutual satisfaction in bed was our top priority. We had heard about how the lack of sex had led to the collapse of many marriages and we did not want ours to add to the statistics. We were so comfortable and open with each other that no one shied off from initiating sex. Although we were at the peak of our careers (I was and I still am a law enforcement officer and my wife is a retired model), we made sure that we created enough time for sex in our busy schedules. Things started to fall apart after the birth of our second child. That is about six years ago.
You see, when we welcomed our first child, we had only refrained from sex for three months after my wife gave birth. It thus took me completely by surprise when after the birth of our second child, my wife would reluctantly say yes to sex even after the third month mark had long come to
pass. I had at the time thought that she was probably experiencing some post-partum issues and that was probably why she was evasive when it came to sex. It took me over a year after this to realize that matters were complicated than I had initially thought. It slowly went from having sex four times a week to having sex only twice a week and within the past one year, only twice in a MONTH if I am lucky enough. Even then, our encounters are not half as passionate or satisfying as they once used to be. She now never initiates sex and when we are at it, she makes it completely obvious that she is not into it. It frustrates me so much because I feel as if I am forcing myself onto her. Now, it is always more like her stating,” Please hurry up and get done with. I want it over with before the kids wake up”. There is not even foreplay. She would not even kiss me. I am always the one who is trying to initiate any form of affection and even then, she always acts withdrawn.
It reached a point where I got extremely hurt, angered and resentful towards her that she sensed that our marriage was on the verge of collapsing. It is then that she fessed up to me that the problem was not me, but that her sex drive was declining, and fast. As much as I was relieved to hear that the problem was not with me at all, I was shocked. I mean-she was by the time only thirty three! Whose libido hits an end that early in life? I could not blame her for her low libido any more than I could blame myself for my insatiable sexual appetite. Plus, I loved and I still love her so much that divorce was out of the question. Which meant that if I wanted to seek for my sexual gratification as the need arose, booking sexy prostitutes was my only safe bet!
For all the women I could have gone out for, one would wonder why I opted for prostitutes or if i wanted to go more high class for companionship Chelsea escorts of all the people, right? The premise behind my reasoning was very simple. For instance:
No strings attached.
Prostitutes have an understanding that their clients do not book them for emotional connections. A prostitute does not expect any sort of emotional investment from their clients. This perfectly worked for me because I was and I am not looking for a substitute for my wife. The sexy prostitutes that I have booked in the past understand that I only seek them for my sexual gratifications and nothing more. Thus, there is no risk of emotional baggage.
Matching libidos.
I do not know how they do it but I have never encountered a prostitute whose sex drive was low. Unlike my wife who has a very low libido, all the prostitutes I have had in the past seem to have a libido that matches my own, if not stronger. This way, my encounters with them do not feel forced.
Availability.
Unlike my wife who has become some sort of a eunuch, escorts like those from Croydon escorts for example are easily accessible and will readily service you any time you want to book their services. When we have sex, which happens once in a blue moon, my wife is very strict on when we have it. Daytime is a big no and
especially not when the kids are around. For someone with such a strong libido such as myself, my right hand can only service me enough times before I seek gratification somewhere else. I know that what I am doing amounts to cheating and that most people would consider me a terrible husband. Although my wife is unaware about my extramarital affairs, I highly doubt that she would have an issue about it. At one time in bed, she had jokingly said that I needed an escort for my insatiable appetite in bed. If the tables were overturned and I be the one with a low libido, I would not hold it against my wife if she decided to seek gratification from male prostitutes. As long as she remembered that we are married…And as long as she remembered to use protection, just like I always do!
