I grew up in a very liberal place where nudity, sex and alcohol were not frowned up. In fact, growing up, I never had any reason to think that any of these things should be cause for shame or embarrassment whatsoever. Even when i joined my London escort agency i never worried about losing the support of my close people. Our neighborhood was home to three different swingers club and my earliest memories are of me seeing happily married couples trotting along and gaining entry to these clubs where they doubtlessly had the best times! This is when my fantasy to visit a swingers club was born. I made a vow that once I hit legal age and found a willing partner, nothing would stop me from exploring the hidden wonders that swinger clubs are so famous for.
By the time I left home and moved to a bigger town, I was twenty five and I still had not lived up to my fantasy. This is because I was still very single by then and the swingers clubs in my hometown strictly denied membership and entry to any single person. Since there was absolutely no hope that these policies were going to change in the near future, my only bet was to move out, get a job and if lucky, get a partner who was as willing as I was to indulge in this fantasy of mine. This is how my fantasy was born…
Our family has always been closely knit and growing up, I was surrounded by aunts, uncles, cousins and pretty much everyone within our direct family. Being surrounded by so many adults, chances were high that we the youngsters would overhear things that were “so adult” and completely not meant for us. This is how I first learnt about swingers clubs and the reason why they have such a name. It was from a conversation I overheard between one of my uncles and one of his coworkers. I was thirteen by then and I remember that I was having a fever that day, hence the reason why I had skipped school. Sleeping in my grandma’s guest room, my uncle and his coworker did not have any idea that their conversation was being listened to by an unintended audience. They were in the living room of my grandma’s house which was adjacent to the guest room where I was pretending to sack up. And the walls were paper-thin so I could clearly hear everything!
It was the coworker who booked gatwick escorts quite often who was narrating to my uncle about the experience he and his wife had had a while ago when they had visited a nearby swingers club. From his tone and from the way my uncle was hanging on to every word, my little brain could tell that whatever happened inside a swingers club, it was really wonderful. He went on to say how he and his wife had met a younger couple while there and how steamy things had gotten. The younger couple had completely taken an interest in him and his wife and since the attraction was mutual, it did not take long to set things in motion. The coworker went on and bragged to my uncle on how fulfilling and satisfying it was swapping partners. According to him, nothing had turned him on more than seeing his wife under the ministrations of another man! When my uncle promised to visit said swingers club with my aunt (his wife), that was the only reason I needed to convince me fully and to totally solidify my desire to visit a swingers club when I grew up. My uncle would have never promised to sign on on something evil, right?
I am now twenty eight and my understanding on swingers clubs is better. I have learnt that swingers clubs provide a safe environment for people who are visual and those who want intimacy to extend beyond the one they have with their life partner. I have also learnt that visitors are very liberal and as long as your partner(s) is willing, no one will judge you or bat an eye at how freaky you are! For someone who is a confessed voyeur and who loves getting watched while having sex, swingers clubs are my heavenly fantasy. Exchanging partners and trying out new things as well as exploring sexual exploits are things that have always acted like an aphrodisiac to me. And this I can easily find in a swingers club! Although I have not yet taken the dip, my fantasy to visit a swingers club has never been stronger!